[Businessmtg] Why do we give to Al-Anon and the World Service Office?

Emee Arthur emee3x12 at hotmail.com
Tue Apr 30 11:26:40 PDT 2013


Hi Raine and Group,

Thank you Raine!  No problem, I will try to write more clearly.  In answer to: Has the issue of online meetings ever come up at a convention?   I dont know.  Conventions are usually fun & fellowship focused.  I personally have brought the topic up at two  Area Assemblies and many times privately to may different GRs.  I talked about what a life line it is for some members, like the deaf, members in assisted living facilities, and invalids who's only means to get to a meeting is online.  The Assembly heard me and agreed but I don't think they knew what to do with the information.  This was a time when online meetings was being down-played and discourage at our F2F meetings (at least in my Area) so it was not easy to stand up for online meetings at that time.  I did say that it would be good if we could have a voice but I was realistic about how that could acutually come about. Maybe it will one day and maybe it won't but it has nothing to do with WSO.  "Let it began with me!" I believe each of us needs to go where we do have a voice  and express our ideas to other GRs and DR's and our Delegates. Assemblies have a thing called Table Topics and they are voted on at Assemblies, and the top 3 are taken by our Delegate, to the World Service Conference for discussion. We need more awareness and help in finding solutions at this level of service if there is to be a change.

Emee



> From: raine.clara.shakti at gmail.com
> To: emee3x12 at hotmail.com
> CC: businessmtg at asp-afg.org
> Subject: RE: [Businessmtg] Why do we give to Al-Anon and the World Service Office?
> Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2013 13:41:47 -0400
> 
> Hi Emee,
> 
> I apologize as I misread your email.  I read your sentence that said " What is it we want from them that we are not getting?  If it is a voice and a vote then we must become a registered GROUP and that starts with us, not WSO."  I did not connect this to what you said below about us not being able to become a group.
> 
> However, has the issue of online meetings being given group status ever come up at a convention?  I don't know the answer to that.
> 
> Thanks for participating Emee.  Hugs.
> 
> Brightest Blessings,
> 
> Raine
> Life is to be lived magnificently and gloriously
> And just one day at a time
> 
> 
> -----Original Message-----
> From: businessmtg-bounces+raine.clara.shakti=gmail.com at asp-afg.org [mailto:businessmtg-bounces+raine.clara.shakti=gmail.com at asp-afg.org] On Behalf Of Emee Arthur
> Sent: Tuesday, April 30, 2013 1:33 PM
> To: raine.clara.shakti at gmail.com
> Cc: ASP Business
> Subject: Re: [Businessmtg] Why do we give to Al-Anon and the World Service Office?
> 
> 
> 
> 
> Hi again Raine & Everyone,
> 
> Raine, I believe you have misunderstood what I have said about us registering ASP as a GROUP.  I never said it was our CHOICE to become a registered Group (this is NOT possible right now because we have no links of service) ... this is what we need to realize.  It is NOT WSO keeping us from doing this. If it is anyone, it would be the group conscious of Al-Anon as a whole. We have to let it began with each one of us and that is something that could take a long time to figure out, if ever.  Unless we can have the same links of service as a registered group we can not become a GROUP.  Right now we have no means of following the links of service  so please tell me how that is WSO controlling us?
> 
> Also, I think it is harsh to say that WSO DEMANDS funds from us.  Our program is based on moral suggestions not demands from any level.
> 
> As far as ASP being a supplement to F2F meetings this is true but it does not imply that the recovery here is any less effective.  I agree with you Raine, that I get a lot more from this on-line group than I do at some of my F2F meetings even if it is not considered a registered group.  It IS our choice to attend this on-line meeting and forfiet our ability to vote on outside matters at this time. If we want that voice &  vote then we will just have to go to a F2F meeting to do that at this time.
> 
> Emee
> 
> > From: raine.clara.shakti at gmail.com
> > Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2013 11:22:28 -0400
> > Subject: Re: [Businessmtg] Why do we give to Al-Anon and the World Service	Office?
> > CC: businessmtg at asp-afg.org
> > To: emee3x12 at hotmail.com
> > 
> > Hi Emee and All,
> > 
> > Emee made the point that it is our choice whether we register as a group or not and I do not believe that is true.  I do not believe that the WSO allows online groups to register as and receive the same privileges as F2F groups.  The WSO also makes it very clear that they view online Meetings as inferior to F2F groups.  
> > 
> > Al-Anon's Electronic Meeting Guidelines http://www.al-anon.org/members/pdf/guidelines/G39.pdf do not give us the option to become a group.  We are a meeting and we have a meeting contact, but the guidelines do not give us a voice in what happens at the WSO.  
> > 
> > Bulletin S-60 (Fact Sheet for Online Meetings)  http://www.al-anon.org/pdf/S60.pdf states that "Electronic Al‑Anon meetings are a supplement to  regular attendance at “face-to-face” Al‑Anon groups."  --I do not believe this is true and my home meeting is ASP even though I have access to F2F meetings, I get so much  more out of ASP than I ever got out of F2F meetings.
> > 
> > Interestingly, the WSO also DEMANDS that we submit our excess funds to the WSO despite us not having a voice which is contrary to all of our Traditions as it sounds like a top down mandate.
> > 
> > Brightest Blessings,
> > 
> > Raine
> > Life is to be lived magnificently and gloriously And just one day at a 
> > time
> > 
> > 
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: businessmtg-bounces+raine.clara.shakti=gmail.com at asp-afg.org 
> > [mailto:businessmtg-bounces+raine.clara.shakti=gmail.com at asp-afg.org] 
> > On Behalf Of Emee Arthur
> > Sent: Tuesday, April 30, 2013 9:49 AM
> > To: raine.clara.shakti at gmail.com
> > Cc: ASP Business
> > Subject: Re: [Businessmtg] Why do we give to Al-Anon and the World Service Office?
> > 
> > Thanks for this information Sandie.
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > > Date: Tue, 30 Apr 2013 07:30:58 -0400
> > > From: svdagg at gmail.com
> > > Subject: [Businessmtg] Why do we give to Al-Anon and the World Service	Office?
> > > CC: businessmtg at asp-afg.org
> > > To: emee3x12 at hotmail.com
> > > 
> > > *We give to express our gratitude for this program which has given 
> > > us a new way of life. *
> > > 
> > > We give so that the message of hope that we find in Al-Anon is 
> > > carried to everyone everywhere.
> > > 
> > > *How is the message of hope carried out throughout the world? *
> > > 
> > > Public Service Announcements - created by the World Service Office 
> > > with the money that is donated to the World Service Office.
> > > 
> > > Conference Approved Literature - created  and published from the 
> > > sharing of Al-Anon members around the world  by the World Service 
> > > Office. the use of Conference Approved Literature (CAL) ensures that 
> > > the Al-Anon message of hope is consistent throughout the world.  CAL 
> > > is reviewed first by the Literature Committee which is a  Committee 
> > > of Delegates from the World Service Conference Structure and then is reviewed by the Policy Committee.
> > > 
> > > *Money is our messenger in places we cannot be.  *
> > > 
> > > There are people all over the world suffering from the affects of 
> > > someone's alcoholism - not just in our groups, districts, areas.
> > > 
> > > Step Twelve - Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of 
> > > these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and to 
> > > practise these principles in all of our affairs.
> > > *"This was and is the opportunity to repay the good we have received.
> > > Carrying the message to others has spread Al-Anon's help to troubled 
> > > people all over the world. When we fulfill that responsibility our 
> > > reward is a ever richer gift."*
> > > * Al-Anon's Twelve Steps and Traditions P 76*
> > > 
> > > Al-Anon is in 133 countries - 42 languages and 36 General Service 
> > > Office Structures.
> > > 
> > > As of December 31, 2012 there were 25,418 Al-Anon groups registered 
> > > around the world.
> > > Of those U.S. 13,245 Al-Anon groups  U.S, 1,002 Alateen Groups 
> > > Canada
> > > 1,329 Al-Anon and 88 Alateen International Al-Anon 9,046 and 708 
> > > Alateen
> > > 
> > > There were 107 registered electronic meetings of which 46 were 
> > > Internet and
> > > 61 telephone -
> > > 77 - English Speaking
> > > 14 Spanish
> > > 4 French
> > > 4 German
> > > 3 Russian
> > > 1 Estonian
> > > 1 Danish
> > > 1 Icelandic
> > > 1 Polish
> > > 1 Portuguese
> > > 
> > > *From Paths to Recovery Page 198 - 199*
> > > **
> > > *"To think of Tradition Seven as protection for my spiritual growth 
> > > is humbling and freeing ....I now know that not only do I get to 
> > > give my money and service, but I also get to receive miracles in 
> > > abundance." *
> > > **
> > > >From Alateen - Hope for Children of Alcoholics p 39
> > > 
> > > "We support Alateen freely with our money as well as give freely of 
> > > our time and effort. This is how we make sure Alateen will be there 
> > > in the future for others that need it."
> > > 
> > > Al-Anon World Service Office is supported by Literature Sales, 
> > > Members donations, Group donations, other.  Al-Anon is 
> > > self-supporting declining outside contributions.
> > > 
> > > Donations to the World Service Office go to support;
> > > 
> > > The Forum - every registered group in the World Service conference 
> > > Structure receives a free copy of the Forum including registered 
> > > electronic meetings.
> > > 
> > > Public Service Announcements -
> > > 
> > > Toll free meeting line
> > > 
> > > Public Outreach
> > > 
> > > Membership Outreach
> > > 
> > > Fellowship Communication
> > > 
> > > World Service Conference
> > > 
> > > Group Services
> > > 
> > > Donations to the World Service Office go to the initial translation 
> > > of CAL in different languages.
> > > 
> > > 
> > > *The more we give the more we receive in a abundant world.  The more 
> > > that I give whether it is financially or spiritually the more I 
> > > receive.  *
> > > **
> > > Al-Anon love & Hugs
> > > 
> > > Sandie
> > > 
> > > *Let It Begin with Me*
> > > 
> > > *When anyone, anywhere, reaches out for help*
> > > 
> > > *Let the hand of Al-Anon and Alateen *
> > > 
> > > *always be there, and- LET IT BEGIN WITH ME*
> > > 
> > > www.al-anon.alateen.org
> > > 
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> > > 
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