[Businessmtg] Officer Requirements - I
logmark at comcast.net
logmark at comcast.net
Fri Apr 2 08:43:48 PDT 2010
Biz-Pals,
Like others have mentioned I believe one full
year of ASP membership [and participation in
topic meetings] should be the minimum qualification
for serving in our officer positions.
My reasons may be a bit different:
In f2f Al-Anon I can get to know a group member
and see their program working (or not) in a few
months time. So, were a relative newcomer volunteer
to serve as the literature person or perhaps even
a position with a little more responsibility, I would
have a fair idea of where they were at in recovery
(or not in recovery.)
Here on line I can never be certain who's bullshitting
a good line, who's representing long-term recovery in
Al-Anon, but has most of their 12-Step work from other
programs, or who's been working diligently in Al-Anon
for quite a long time.
To be honest it takes me about a year of reading some
folks' shares before I get around to figuring out whether
a good, strong Al-Anon program is attached to the email
name. Thus my year minimum for officer service.
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Background reasoning:
On line Al-Anon carries with it a greater responsibility
for carrying the Al-Anon message without distortion. I may
say something in a f2f meeting that is not Al-Anon and only
a very few people (if any) would be led to believe that my
share was the "official Al-Anon" line.
Here, with 400+ members spread across the globe, passing off
decidedly non-Al-Anon ideas or concepts can easily distort
the fellowship's purpose. On the one hand Al-Anon WSO and WSC
are trying to keep misunderstandings down while on the other
on line can perpetuate wrong concepts faster than the WSC or WSO
can combat them. I offer the frequent use of "Co-dependence"
in even our meetings without challenge [when it is a professional
term of an outside therapy - and up until just a few years ago
when the Service Manual was reworded to use general language
about professional terms, the "C" word was offered as an example
of professional terms not to be used in Al-Anon (the other was
"co-alcoholic ."]
...or calling a certain (wonderful passage from CAL) "The Promises."
By accepting that usage here we perpetuate its use around the world
and make the WSO's job of fighting this usage infinitely more difficult.
Only someone who's been around ASP a while gets to see the potential
for harm this medium has unless tempered by experience.
Just my initial thoughts....except to say that certain difficult
to fill positions [?web master because of skill requirements?]
may require that we shrink the 1-year requirement to get the
position filled.
Lunch-hour hugs,
Jerry
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